By Tala Al Rabea
My time at the HIV Legal Network has pushed me to grow professionally and, most importantly, personally. In more ways than one, I was outside my comfort zone as I navigated living away from home for the first time– a real push to adulthood. Learning where the best places are to purchase groceries (for a college student, of course), understanding the shared hatred towards the TTC, and cooking some of the most elaborate meals with my wonderful roommate, all while Sex and the City was playing in the background.
Living in Toronto made me braver to explore things I never dared to do in Montréal, either because I am comfortable in my routine here or because I never thought of it. One notable thing I explored was Brazilian jiu-jitsu, where I did classes three times a week in the city. I have my dear friend to thank, or to scold, for dragging me to the first class, where I instantly became hooked. So much so, I paid right then and there for three classes a week for two months.
Another bravery that Toronto instilled in me, which I still appreciate, is pushing myself to meet new people, especially if I want to get to know the city, make new friends or even explore spaces that resonate with me. I volunteered at a BIPOC-owned market where I got to help an incredible makeup artist and business owner who ended up gifting one of her handmade silver bracelets that I wear every day, but also with whom I have built a friendship, and with her brother, amongst others that I met at that event.
What I also appreciated about Toronto is the cuisine that I feel differs from the options we have in Montréal. A notable one would be Tibetan cuisine, given how Toronto has a strong Tibetan community. During lunchtime, in the same building as my work, and like clockwork, I would go to Momo House and get myself the jhol momo even if it was pretty hot outside. I often miss this from Toronto and hope to have some time soon, preferably as the weather gets cooler.
My wonderful experience in Toronto is something that I am forever grateful for, as it was enlightening in many ways. I owe it to my colleagues, roommate, shared friends, and everyone I spend time with in the city. Toronto will always have a special place in my heart, even if I got homesick a few times.